Dear Readers,
All My Belongings by Cynthia Ruchti is a very good
book. I was first thinking that it was a
book about having a family member that committed a crime and how that affects
everyone, even well after the person is caught and put in prison. But it is about so much more than that. It has two very strong story lines and they
blend together beautifully which makes the story all the richer.
The one I mentioned deals with family members who are
criminals. What is that like? How do people react to you when they
recognize you or you tell them who you are?
How do you forgive that family member?
All questions and issues that are dealt with and yet very few of us will
ever have to deal with a murderer in the family.
The other story line was harder for me because it was about
a mother with dementia. I have mentioned
before that my mother was diagnosed a year ago with it. It is not an easy thing to watch, a parent
slowly losing everything that makes them your parent.
Neither topic is an easy one to read about, they each carry
their own baggage, but they are also things that families deal with every
day.
Becca is moving half way across the country to get away from
her family, especially her father. What
he did and her part in it is something she would like to never think of
again. She is hoping a new name and
start will put that all behind her. She
wants to return to college and finish her nursing degree. She dreams of being just another face in the
crowd, but is California far enough away?
Isaac is drawn to Becca the moment he meets her. He knows she is the one to take of his
mother, who is suffering from Dementia.
He doesn’t have enough time in his schedule to take care of his mother
and the temps he keeps hiring are not doing a good enough job, so when his Aunt
recommends Becca, he jumps at the chance.
He knows she is hiding something, but how bad can it be?
I am not sure how else to describe a book like this. It is one that I think is important to read
to understand what families go through when they are in these situations, but
it doesn’t always make for an easy read.
Sometimes it makes you uncomfortable, sometimes it hits too close to
home. But it also offers encouragement,
there are others who are in the same place in life and they are ready to
support you as you walk this journey also.
Not a light summer read, but one that is a good read for
anytime of the year.
Happy Reading,